1. When Snake is alive, Snake eats Ants. When Snake is dead, Ants eat Snake. Time can turn at any time. Don't neglect anyone in your life........ ...
2. Never make the same mistake twice, There are so many new ones, Try a different one each day.
3. A good way to change someone's attitude is to change our own. Because, the same sun melts butter, also hardens clay! Life is as we think, so think beautifully.
4. Life is just like a sea, we are moving without end. Nothing stays with us, what remain is just the memories of some people who touched us as Waves.
5. Whenever you want to know how rich you are? Never count your currency, just try to Drop a Tear and count how many hands reach out to WIPE that- that is true richness.
6. Heart tells the eyes see less, because you see and I suffer lot. Eyes replied, feel less because you feel and I cry a lot.
7. Never change your originality for the sake of others, because no one can play your role better than you. So be yourself, because whatever you are, YOU are the best.
8. Baby mosquito came back after 1st time flying. His dad asked him "How do you feel?" He replied "It was wonderful, Everyone was clapping for me!" Now thats what I call Positive Attitude
There once was a bunch of tiny frogs, who arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants... The race began... Honestly: No one in crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. You heard statements such as: "Oh, WAY too difficult!! They will NEVER make it to the top." or: "Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!"
The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one... Except for those who in a fresh tempo were climbing higher and higher...
The crowd continued to yell "It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!"
tiny frogs got tired and gave up But ONE continued higher and higher and higher This one wouldn't give up! At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the one tiny frog who after a big effort was the only one who reached the top!
THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed to do it? A contestant asked the tiny frog how the one who succeeded had found the strength to reach the goal? It turned out... That the winner was DEAF!!!!
The wisdom of this story is: Never listen to other people's tendencies to be negative or pessimistic cause they take your most wonderful dreams and wishes away from you. The ones you have in your heart! Always think of the power words have. Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions! Therefore: ALWAYS be... POSITIVE! And above all: Be DEAF when people tell YOU that YOU can not fulfil YOUR dreams! Always think: I can do this!
Pass this on to "tiny frogs" you care about.
Stop EXISTING. Start LIVING !!! "Life doesn't turn out the way we plan..." "Sometimes things happen that are just out of your control..."
a nice poem which I got through an e-mail. felt worth sharing with others. enjoy ....
Never try to examine ur deep relations Becoz they are like diamonds When u hit them they don’t break But may slip away from ur life
How pathetic we humans are: If we hate someone , we tell it to every one without fear but if we love someone, we fear even to tell the loved ones
when u feel GOD is rubbing u against rocks , don’t think he will ruin u down to dust .. its just his way of polishing a gem
To be the subject of jealousy is the sign of failure in life & To be the object of jealousy is the sign of success in life
When u don’t know the value of a person who cares for u so much, U r bound to suffer later when the person is no more to care for u
Your true character is most accurately measured by how u treat those who can do nothing for u.
People usually change for two reasons : Its either they have learnt a lot that they want to change or They have been hurted a lot that they need to change
In life if people criticize u , hurts u , dominates u ,shouts at u, Don’t be bothered just remember “In every game audience make more noise ,not the players “.
A Jew can grow his beard in order to practice his faith
But when Muslim does the same, he is an extremist and terrorist!
A nun can be covered from head to toe in order to devote herself to God, right? But, then, if a daughter of Muslim-Ummah does the same, why is she oppressed?
When a western woman stays at home to look after her house and kids she is respected by the entire society because of sacrificing her life to her house
But when a Muslim woman does so by her will, they say, "she needs to be liberated"!
Any girl can go to university wearing what she wills and have her rights and freedom?
But when a Muslim Girl/Lady wears Hijab, they prevent her from entering the university!
When a child dedicates himself to a subject, he has potential and talent..
But when he dedicates himself to Islam he is hopeless!
WHY When a Jew kills someone, religion is not mentioned, but when a Muslim is charged with a crime, it is Islam that goes to trial! When someone sacrfices himself to keep others alive, he is noble and everyone respects him.
But when a Palestinian does that to save his son from being killed, his brother's arm being broken, his mother being raped, his home being destroyed, and his mosque being violated --- He gets the title of 'terrorist'! Why? Because he is a "Muslim"!
When there is trouble, we accept any solution available, right? However, if the solution lies in Islam, we refuse to take a look at it.
When someone drives a perfect car in an improper manner, no one blames the car....
But when any Muslim makes a mistake or treats people in a bad manner - people say"Islam is the reason"!
I found a really nice article in the web which consist nice five stories to think about. I really love it a lot. And like to share it with you :
From : http://www.anirudhlohia.com/blog/5-important-lessons/
Five lessons to make you think about the way we treat people…
1 – First Important Lesson – Cleaning Lady
During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:
“What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?”
Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?
I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.
“Absolutely,” said the professor. “In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say “hello.”
I’ve never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.
2 – Second Important Lesson – Pickup in the Rain
One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960’s. the man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.
She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man’s door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached..
It read:
“Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. the rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband’s bedside just before he passed away… God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.”
Sincerely,
Mrs. Nat King Cole.
3 – Third Important Lesson – Always remember those who serve..
In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.
“How much is an ice cream sundae?” he asked.
“Fifty cents,” replied the waitress.
the little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.
“Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?” he inquired.
By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing.
“Thirty-five cents,” she brusquely replied.
the little boy again counted his coins.
“I’ll have the plain ice cream,” he said.
the waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. the boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies..
You see, he couldn’t have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.
4 – Fourth Important Lesson. – the obstacle in Our.
In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping! the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.
Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. the purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. the peasant learned what many of us never understand!
Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.
5 – Fifth Important Lesson – Giving When it Counts…
Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5 year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. the doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister.
Deep breathing and saying, “Yes I’ll do it if it will save her.” As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded.
He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, “Will I start to die right away”.
Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.
the things we admire in men: kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling are the concomitants of failure in our system.
And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest are the traits of success. And while men admire the quality of the first they love the produce of the second.
~ John Steinbeck, novelist, Nobel laureate (1902-1968)
Once it happens for two strangers to meet and speak while they were travelling in a ship. Once they met up both became friends and started to talk about their personal matters. Sooner they stared to talks about their childhood and their parents.
Then one when he was talking about his father he said that his father died in a ship when the ship sinked in the middle of the sea. And it was the same way how his grandfather passed away. When the other hears this with amazement, said “Oh! So aren’t you afraid of travelling by a ship when both your father and grandfather died in ships”.
When the other person said so the first asked him
“How and where did your father pass away”
Answer was “On the bed while sleeping”
“Then how was your grandfather?”
Answer : “was the same”
So that man with a smile in the face asked the other “So aren’t you afraid of sleeping in the bed?”
With such an answer the latter realized how dumb he is to ask such a silly question when the dead is reality.
As in this story many time in our life we tends to behave in the same way as the second man. In many situations we tend to avoid some scenarios where sometimes a bad incident related to it. But never ever look in to the root cause for the problem.
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